Zhou Er Fu Shi
Life repeats.
Understanding keeps growing.
Yanfeng and I talk about disagreements, new directions in life, and learning to live together. We start with our own experiences, keep both perspectives, and take our time finding answers.
02 Getting married: a natural next step or a leap of faith?
We revisit the decision to get married, talking about small moments of love, shared decisions, and trust.
Explore the episodes
05 Spend or save? Four steps that cut my spending by 50%
On the dilemmas of spending, and putting money toward the life you actually want.
04 Who am I without my job? Rebuilding a sense of worth
Finding a sense of worth in everyday experience and relationships after leaving a professional identity behind.
03 To have children or not? Different perspectives from Shanghai
A conversation with a guest about parenthood, social expectations, personal desires, and trust in the unknown.
02 Getting married: a natural next step or a leap of faith?
We revisit the decision to get married, talking about small moments of love, shared decisions, and trust.
01 Anniversary letters: love is our answer
On our second wedding anniversary, we read letters to each other and reflect on joy, tenderness, and growth.
Why we started talking
Two people can live through the same moment and remember it very differently. We bring our unresolved questions to the table, finding new understanding through stories, questions, disagreement, and reflection.
Questions to listen with
- Why do we disagree even when we both mean well?
- After leaving a familiar path, how do we discover the life we want?
- How do we find our own rhythm between work, health, and relationships?
How we talk
We start with everyday life and make room for different feelings. We try to be honest and thoughtful, leaving space for uncertainty without turning our experiences into universal answers.